What is cognitive dissonance?

We all experience cognitive dissonanceCognitive Dissonance occurs when a person holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values, or participates in an More regularly, looking at those people we know who are walking contradictions or hypocrites. It can come off as easy as when your health-conscious, everything-organic friend gets breast implants or when your anti-establishment cousin joins a private club. Cognitive dissonanceCognitive Dissonance occurs when a person holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values, or participates in an More is when you have 2 very different beliefs about something at the same time. It is incredibly common to experience this phenomenon when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist.

Simply put, when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, they tell you one thing today and then deny it tomorrow. When this happens, you are experiencing cognitive dissonance.

Narcissists use cognitive dissonanceCognitive Dissonance occurs when a person holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values, or participates in an More to their advantage. This is another way narcissists like to keep you off-balance, dizzy from the rollercoaster of their relationship. You don’t know what to expect from them one day to the next. This is especially true when you’re trying to understand how this person keeps claiming to love you even though they continue to emotionally abuse you.

Cognitive dissonanceCognitive Dissonance occurs when a person holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values, or participates in an More is also described in a relationship with a narcissist as doubting the reality of what actually happened in the relationship due to the narcissist’s tactics of gaslightingGaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person covertly sows seeds of doubt in a More, the silent treatmentSilent Treatment The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse typically employed by people with narcissistic tendencies. It More, blame-shifting, and projectionNarcissistic Projection is a defense mechanism commonly used by abusers, including people with narcissistic or borderline personality disorder and addicts. Basically, More. This is intentional. People who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) The hallmarks of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are grandiosity, a lack of empathy for other people, and More say and do cruel things to provoke a reaction out of you. They create drama and cause chaos where there isn’t any. They love to shift the blame as they will never accept responsibility for their actions. These techniques keep you off balance.

The Narcissistic Abuse Cycle

Cognitive dissonanceCognitive Dissonance occurs when a person holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values, or participates in an More manifests as the love-bombing affection given by narcissists one day only to be ignored and receive the silent treatmentSilent Treatment The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse typically employed by people with narcissistic tendencies. It More the next day.

What are the signs of cognitive dissonance?

Second-guessing yourself – difficulty making decisions
Constantly apologizing for things you haven’t done
Withdrawing from social interactions
Doubting your own memory
Inability to trust yourself

How to overcome the effects of cognitive dissonance

Journal to record how you were feeling when it happened
Find your support system of friends who care about you and will listen
Practice self-care, give yourself some grace
Learn to set healthy boundariesBoundaries are an imaginary line that separates me from you. They separate your physical space, your More
Talk to someone who gets it like a narcissistic abuseNarcissistic Abuse is a form of emotional abuse projected by a narcissist on to another individual, Although narcissistic abuse More recovery coach.

If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, either romantic or in your family, it’s time to say enough is enough. They are not going to change. You have to change.

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This is why it’s so important to talk to someone after you’ve suffered this type of abuse. But not just anyone. You need to find someone who’s familiar with narcissistic personality disorderNarcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) The hallmarks of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are grandiosity, a lack of empathy for other people, and More. You see, I didn’t get here by accident. I didn’t set out to become a narcissistic abuse recovery coach. But after I’d suffered this kind of abuse, I realized that my story and my experience could help so many people who’ve suffered similarly. When someone tells me about their struggles and their story, I’m not just understanding. I really get it. I’ve been there. I’ve felt those same emotions, that same rage, and loss.

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