Discard When the victim asks for compromise, reciprocity, empathy, integrity, honesty, and boundariesBoundaries are an imaginary line that separates me from you. They separate your physical space, your (all healthy and valid requests that people with extreme narcissistic qualities will not engage in), the narcissist will decide that the victim has lost his or her luster and is tarnished—no longer the “perfect partner” to fulfill their need for narcissistic supplyNarcissistic Supply refers to those people who provide a constant source of attention, approval, adoration, admiration,.  Inevitably, the discarding occurs when the narcissist either disappears or orchestrates his or her own abandonment by engaging in some form of egregious emotional (or physical) abuse. The outcome is often shocking for the survivor, unclear as to how someone that he or she fell so deeply in love with could throw it all away.